Can the heart promise to love only one person?
Pure love is something that we radiate out freely.
No one can control the light and radiation of the sun.
The true heart radiates out a force that does not stop,
does not rest at any one point. True love simply loves love.The primary difference between egotistical love and the true love of the heart is seen in the difference between the constrictive and exclusive love of just one person and the free radiation of love for many. True love loves every opportunity to love where as the ego's love is fixated on the love of one object, one body, one wife, one husband. Though the temptation to couple up can be devastatingly strong when we fall for the winds of romance and the ultra strong tides of our hearts, eventually we need to find our own center that is independent of the controlling influence of our attachments and needs.
The Marriage of Souls breaks the arch-typical images that have crystallized in the deepest regions of our collective imaginations. It removes the straight jacketing conceptual limitation that tells us to love and risk ourselves (make ourselves vulnerably) completely with only one other being for the course of a lifetime. The Marriage of Souls leads us out of the soul denying halls of exclusivity and into the light of shared love. Instead of lying to each other about eternally loving "only you" we open to the possibility of that kind of love that is divine and shareable with others. It is this very lie that is eating the heart out of humanity because it is not in tune with the cosmic heart that is beating to an entirely different order. This is the reason why traditional closed egocentric marriage goes against God (the cosmic intelligence) and the true nature of the human soul.
Pure devotion and total commitment express love bonds that were not meant to be broken. The Marriage of Souls is about creating permanent love bonds that allows for freedom, true love, and divine friendship. It offers a new philosophical path that guides us through the treacherous waters of human love and ushers us ever upward to the most beautiful and magnificent love that lies dormant in our beings.
The mirror of Gods love is found in the love for many.
We learn this love when we open our hearts
and learn love in its many forms.
Each being offers us a unique opportunity to learn love.
The more beings we truly love the closer to God we become
for God loves all beings.The expansion of human love into divine love is paralleled by our expansion past the limits of the possessive couple bond. It is perfectly natural for us to enter coupled relationships but a deeper, more real, and lasting love is waiting beyond the walls of tightly controlled exclusive love relationships. Living within the circle of fear, jealousy and insecurity is just not healthy for our souls. The Marriage of Souls begins in the inner chambers of our own heart and manifests into brilliance when we open our hearts to love other beings with all of our heart, mind, body (sometimes), and soul. The more beings we collect into our hearts the greater and more noble our souls become.
The Marriage of Souls opens a new doorway to love through ‘open architecture’ within the family unit. This openness is very different from the early experiments with open marriage and having affairs. We are talking about the creation of the sweetest and most divine love between human beings on a pure being level that is independent of the flesh. And as we enter the digital age we can see this as one of the main advantages of virtual relationships and virtual communication. We are more free to concentrate on the non physical aspects of relationships and for many this offers a great liberation from the attractions and distractions of the flesh.
The Marriage of Souls is learning the way God loves.
With each being that we truly love we are getting
in touch with one more part of God.The Marriage of Souls is not about open marriage in the old sense of the term. It is about open communications and the free sharing of our vulnerabilities, our hearts, inner beings and souls. Any two people can relate and enter into a committed relationship totally independent as to the quality of their love. But in open architectural relationship systems it is love, true compassion, and a deep empathetic understanding of others that we are looking to develop and these things do not arise in our consciousness when we are too busy closing ourselves off to people by concentrating in romantic cocoons.
The basic tenant of the Marriage of Souls is openness. The openness of the heart coupled with the freedom to love and communicate with other beings. This is not a license to messy affairs or conduct infidelities which work in the opposite direction, i.e., work to close the heart and break trust. Open people grow and they are able to establish and maintain close intimate relationships with others much more effectively than closed people. Most people opt for a life of limited openness and honesty because openness demands a certain level of self-discipline that is just too much for most people. Openness, honesty and sincerity make up a sub-trinity of the heart. When we open to the discipline that these attitudes embrace we become totally free to be for we are unburdened of any necessity to hide.
By their openness, people dedicated to the truth
live in the open, and through the exercise of their courage
to live in the open, they become free from fear.
M. Scott PeckFor the heart to breathe there needs to be openness not closed family systems where the ego can rule as king. The ego rules through separation (closed communication), the heart through openness and love. But love has always been a problem because of complications of intimacy and sexuality, jealousy and control, fidelity and infidelity. As such our hearts and souls have been suffering since the birth of civilization. But the pure love of The Marriage of Souls transcends all the messes inherent in our bodies and passions. Though this is easier said than done, today our own race intelligence has created an instrument that will help us move in safer circles toward the experience of non egotistical and non lustful love. Now there are no longer any excuses to wall off the family unit from the rest of humanity. Today totally open channels of communication are available or will be available soon to a great part of the human race.
To love one is a closed circle, it's limits are too well defined.
To love two is more, our circle expands.
To love three is growth and from there,
there are no more limits.True love is an ever expansive miracle and if we are lucky enough to find that love with another soul we must not imprison that love there. The idea that there is only one soul mate waiting out there to fulfill our need for love is such a trap for there are many soul mates waiting for and needing our love. That incredibly rare couple that finds true love and enlightenment, through their relationship, is no justification for the existence of, and our faith in, traditional marriage. Traditional marriage is a closed system and this has nothing to do with true love.